I have a aeon-labs stick, a duwi remote (battery kind) and a fibaro FGS221 (dual switch).
I tried to pair them by:
1. single push on the aeonlabs
2. hold down the include button on the duwi remote
3. whip the rocker on the fibaro switch 3 times.
now I thought that would be enough to get a network setup... that kind of put me in limbo as I actually had nothing working.
Then I tried to remove everything on the network by:
1. pushing the aeonlabs button for 3 seconds putting it in a slow flashing mode
2. press the exclude button on the duwi remote
3. whip the rocker on the fibaro switch 3 times.
I then put the stick back into the server with the domotiga installation and the zwave commander still saw all nodes in the zwave network (uhm, what went wrong there).



I've been able to pair the aeon-labs stick and the duwi remote properly by first pressing the include button on the duwi and then single push pressing the aeon-labs stick button. They get a good pair from the reading of the leds on both devices.
Now I have to get the fibaro connected properly. As it seems both connections are seen as different devices and the only way to get them both connected properly at the same time is to use the B button (small dipswitch in the hole on the device itself). I've tried that, pressing the b button 3 times and then putting the aeon-key in learning mode, but that doesn't work. I've tired the mothod above by flipping the oldfashioned switch on the wall 3 times, but that didn't work as well.